TechConnectify@mas.to - Oh my gosh I just figured it out.

Okay, all you open source evangelist people: your knee-jerk reaction to come at people who are talking about a problem with whatever commercial software they use and suggest Your Favorite Alternatives™ is exactly like saying “why don’t you just buy a house?” to someone complaining about their landlord.

TechConnectify@mas.to - Actually, to borrow from @DoubleA, it’s worse than that.

It’s like talking to someone who is in a crappy apartment as though they have the agency and skills to stake out a plot of land and build their own home.

You have to be at peace with the fact that some people just want to exist and not worry about so many things. And they still have a right to complain about their situation.

Link to thread: https://mas.to/@TechConnectify/111539959265152243

  • Ech@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Better comparison would’ve been something like “Annoyed with your landlord? Go build a cabin in the woods!”. Like, that’s straight-up appealing to some people, but it’s also not just something anyone and everyone can do.

    • OrnateLuna@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Even then that’s not that accurate, more like move to a different place. It’s inconvenient and might not have all the same things you wanted/liked from your old place but you can actually change things in the new place if you really want to

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        More like moving to France. For me it wouldn’t be an issue. My french isn’t bad and I learn languages quickly.

        I assume that’s not true of everyone, just like everyone isn’t great at PC stuff.

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        Then you find out that while the new place doesn’t have the problems the old place had, it has a whole new set of problems.

        Sometimes the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t.

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    Guy wanted to vent about smart thermostats, explicitly said he doesn’t need advice and got bajillion responses with advice, mostly from FOSS folks who couldn’t contain themselves. I’d be annoyed too.

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        No. Thinking about the panda is involuntary in that scenario. Typing up and submitting an explicitly unwanted response is not involuntary. It’s a thing a person chooses to do expressly against the wishes of the person making the request.

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    Translation:“I refuse to try the thing that people tell me might make my life better. I prefer to rant and complain to random strangers on a public forum rather than accepting that a solution to my problem may exist”

    It’s funny, this is not at all his stance when it comes to hardware and appliances. It doesn’t even sound like something he’d say.

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      The whole point is that a bunch of people don’t have the technical skills to figure out FOSS. Sure, sometimes the ux is just as good as the main competitor, but in my experience, usually it isnt and has a decent learning curve

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        This.

        Last month, I installed Mint, which is my first ever Linux install. I chose it because people said it would be the most hassle-free.

        The bugs currently plaguing me include:

        • Steam’s UI scaling is off, to the extent that I practically need a magnifying glass to read it.
        • Bluetooth has now decided that it no longer wants to automatically connect to my speaker.
        • Discord won’t share audio during screen sharing anymore.

        But the big one, the one that made me stop and think, was the keyboard. Right out of the box, my function keys (brightness, airplane mode, etc) would not work. This turned out to be because the laptop was not recognizing its keyboard as a libinput device, but treating it as a HID sensor hub instead. To fix it, I had to:

        • Find similar problems on the forums and recognize which were applicable to my case.
        • Learn what the terminal was and how to copy code into it.
        • Learn that the terminal can be opened from different folders, which alters the meaning of the commands.
        • Learn the file system, including making how to make hidden files visible.
        • Figure out that a bunch of steps in the forum were just creating a text file, and that any text editor would do.
        • Figure out there were typos and missing steps in the forum solutions.
        • Learn what a kernel is, figure out mine was out of date, and update it.
        • Do it all over again a month later when for some reason my function keys stopped working again.

        For me, this was not a big deal. It did take me two evenings to solve, but that’s mostly because I’m lazy. But for someone with low technical literacy (such as my mom, who barely grasps the concept of ad blockers in Google Chrome), every one of these bullet points would be a monumental accomplishment.

        The FOSS crowd can be a bit insular, and they seem to regularly forget that about 95% of the people out there have such low technical literacy that they struggle to do anything more involved than turn on a lightbulb.

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          He’s noticed an issue that people who are into tech always push complicated things onto non techies. I don’t see how that is contradictory or weird…

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        I’d be more sympathetic to that mindset if it was anyone other than TC saying this. He’s a smart dude and I have every confidence he could figure out how to use a new piece of software.

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          … could.

          Or he (and anyone else) could go and do one of 20000 other potentially way more interesting things with their life.

          Imagine that?

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            He is, very obviously.

            Some of his recent rants have been about technology that is actively unfriendly to people who are not good with technology. That doesn’t mean he cannot figure it out, but it means his parents can’t.

            Inevitably people show up to suggest a giant convoluted solution based on the power of open source. Menu poorly worded on the ecobee? They should be using home assistant anyway!

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          He is a smart guy but that doesn’t mean he knows everything. I’ve never seen him demonstrate proficiency in software.

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      I follow him on Mastodon, and I think many regular users misunderstand his specific problems. They’re unique due to his huge number of followers, and I think that if we want Mastodon to grow, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to include more tools for folks with large followings.

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    Are you trying to gather a lynch mob here? I think posts like these are quite bad taste. Most wont have a good understanding of the situation.

    Does this really fit this community?

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    @morrowind funny to find this here when I wrote my reply just a while ago:

    “It’s like talking to someone who is in a crappy apartment as though they have the agency and skills to stake out a plot of land and build their own home.”

    Maybe if you’re suggesting them to install Linux From Scratch, then yes, it is.

    If you’re suggesting them them to install any of the many very simple (and very usable OOTB) distros like Fedora, then it’s not.

    In that case it’s like the house is free, already built and furnitured, and right next to their own; but they have to move their personal belongings from one house to the other and learn a different room layout.

    Sure, they still have the right to complain about how their landlord treats them like crap. But they sound pretty damn stupid if they do so while having an available free house right next door, and refusing to move because they don’t want to learn a new room layout.

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      How many times have you setup Fedora or any other Linux distribution and have every single thing working from the get go?

      I’m talking drivers, audio, networking, libraries, DNF, repositories, plugins, runtime dependencies, …

      • That house isn’t furnished.

      And don’t forget, plenty of popular software isn’t even compatible. Meaning you got to use alternative software that doesn’t always do what you want it to do.

      • So buy a new couch, cause that one isn’t getting in.
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      It’s somewhere in between, you’re not building your own software, but oss software does usually tend to need more work. It’s like telling someone with a shitty landlord to move to a new house which they get to own, but it has no paint, or lighting, or flooring and they have to move their furniture and learn a different layout

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        And If it doesn’t require more work, it requires different work. The beast you know is easier and more comfortable to understand than the beast you don’t know, even if it would be more beneficial to learn to deal with the newcomer.

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      “Open source is free if you don’t value your time.” (forgot who that quote is from)

      Sometimes the time investment is small, but especially for complex software, the friction of switching from one imperfect (proprietary) software to another imperfect (open) software makes it not really make much sense unless the issue is severe (house is half destroyed).

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        This is basically what he was saying. Open source tends to be a much less plug-and-play out-of-the-box experience, and usually requires at least some IT know-how for it to not be an infuriating experience. A lot of FOSS advocates compensate for that by kind of being that over explaining bro meme and get kinda pushy about getting people over the technical barriers because they want FOSS to be widely adopted and be a real alternative, and for good reasons. But most people don’t have the time or patience to stumblefuck their way through IT issues, they just want the shit to work.

        It’s a fair criticism, accessibility is a big problem in FOSS. We’ve come a long way, but there’s still a long way to go.

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          This is basically what he was saying.

          If that’s what he was trying to say, he’s doing a bad job.

          The only thing you need to buy a house is money. You don’t need literally any money to use FOSS.

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            Well, it’s mastodon. You’ve got a little over 400 characters to say what you’re going to say in the most shocking, attention-getting way possible. Yes, it’s not a perfect analogy, but no metaphor is perfect or else it wouldn’t really be a metaphor, would it?

            Anyway, it’s a time and convenience cost that becomes extremely significant as your IT proficiency decreases, and you’ve got another think coming if you think those costs don’t matter to people.

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    When I say to my sister “I will literally buy the house for you, help you move in, and give you my phone number you can call any time you need any help with it” and she comes back with “I’d rather sit here and complain about my landlord” I think I have a right to get angry

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      Yeah, and that is their opinion, which is as valid as yours.

      They are the ones who will have to use the software day in and out, they should be the ones to decide which software they use.

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      you have to admit this is one hell of an edge case. the vast majority don’t have your sister’s ‘problem’

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          You haven’t seen the FOSS community then

          Also you will have to play tech support no matter what if you set them up

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            Or you will need help and ask questions and people will assume you are “lazy asking” and be toxic just because you are a beginner and don’t know stuff. Recently I’ve lost count on how many projects I joined some kind of communication space like Discord and left as soon as I saw how awful people can be when they want to gatekeep